By my own personal experience...

No.

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Words to live by... 

Forever.

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As a parent... maybe instead;

"Is there anything we can help you with?"

"How can we be of assistance?"

"But first and most importantly, we just want to say how sorry we are for not being of support. For not being present during important life events."

"We want to work towards the present and future of being better parents."

That's called using absence in a positive light. Soul searching. Self reflection.

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But those who desire to be rich fall into temptation, into a snare, into many senseless and harmful desires that plunge people into ruin and destruction.

For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evils.

It is through this craving that some have wandered away from the faith and pierced themselves with many pangs.

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After reconnecting with a childhood friend. There was a question they asked regarding why some people advertise and brag about money, material possessions. Especially during a very difficult time for so many struggling in the world. 

Here's why👇

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People who publicly brag and boast about money, materials possessions, usually do this because they want some sort of recognition. 

In their normal lives, they do nothing special or particularly useful. There is a void of some sorts in their life that they fill with money. Having money, assets and excess is not necessarily due to intelligence in the finance area, or rare skills in the individual. Although some of these traits of a person's character can be inherited... if I have more or better than others then maybe my parents or family will see me as a good person. Better than the average Joe. If I hide behind my transgressions with all of my assets, then maybe people will not see my wrong doings. This is a common character flaw that happens due to major life voids within an individual. The choice to boast about their money, material objects to the general public, family, friends or loved ones is to cover far greater voids within one's life. These types of individuals are also well known to show affection by purchasing it. Love to them is money.

Money=Love

Love=Money

Others who boast about their money, are doing it because they have been lucky due to inheritance, or increase in property values... luck buying and reselling at the right time or location. The problem is their happiness solely depends upon what other people think of them. They believe the more money, assets they attain and are able to boast publicly... the better they are of a person. The boasting is in actuality, done to cover being less than ordinary. Generally, if you strip away their shell built of money... they lack personality. There is nothing special about them past the point of their material possessions, and money.

Remember folks, during this difficult time for 2 out of every 3 families in this world... keep your boasting of money, objects, and material possessions down to bare minimum. No one wants to constantly see, read, hear about how much better off you are when there are children going without basic necessities. Couples struggling to pay rent. People in general, struggling. 

If you want to boast. Make sure it comes from the heart about how you are helping others. No one has to live way beyond their means. That is an individual choice. Those who choose to do so, let me say... they are only boasting to fill a huge void within their heart. Attempting to achieve some higher than thou social status.

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It's one thing if a person screws up, and owns up to their projected unhappiness on to you.

It's another thing however, if a person continues their projected unhappiness not just towards you, but as well to others. 

If people can't be at the least, a decent human being... learn, evolve and grow from mistakes. You will in time, see the universe unexpectedly step in. God walks into their life and lessons are learned the hard way. This generally happens... the winds of change, when least expected.

Sometimes when people project their unhappiness onto you.. let people be people, and walk the other way.

This isn't your battle. Their projected unhappiness was never your battle to be had in the first place.

You just keep moving, and looking forward. You take care of YOU. Let the universe handle the rest.

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In the entire universe, you play such a huge role. The self esteem and love you have for yourself is the only gift you need to give.

It isn’t a selfish act to love yourself hard ❤️

Only you can love yourself to the fullest, because you understand why every aspect of your life has happened. A self-love deficit isn’t what will bring you joy. The wrong mental attitude can be devastating in this crazy world. If you have true self esteem and high-self-love... you can share that love with the world around you.

To love oneself is to love the world... a person learns that only when they show themselves the kindness they deserve.

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You better wait.

Stop yourself before you fall.

You better wait.

Stop before you lose it all... Cause somewhere there's love.

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She was no longer just twirling a simple baton of life.

She was now twirling a baton on fire.

She was fierce because she learned to respect and love herself.

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How does one heal from narcissistic abuse?

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You thought I meant something else, didn't you?!😆

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“Life is not a matter of holding good cards, but of playing a poor hand well.”

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You can pretend all you want.

You can wish all you want.

You can fight as hard and as long with all your might.

But it is a sad, yet real reality that there comes a point when you can no longer fight.

What is far greater than oneself.

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To all the parents of the world that have sons or daughters that struggle with chronic illness. 

When a son or daughter comes to you for assistance. It is your duty to help your son or daughter. They are already taking on a great feat of living with the daily ins and outs that come with chronic illness. As a parent, you should be checking in with your son and daughter to see if they need any help. Helping to lessen the load, weight on already heavy shoulders.

When your son or daughter is trying to desperately exit an unhealthy relationship and asks for your help time and time again. As a parent, it is a moral duty, your obligation, to help your son or daughter. No adult, already struggling with their health, can successfully free themselves from an unhealthy relationship without help... assistance. It is crazy to think otherwise. 

Any parent or parents who sits back, and instead watches their own son or daughter struggle and suffer. Any parent who refuses to help their own son or daughter... is not a parent.

Any mother who has a daughter or daughters and makes a statement, that they would rather their daughter or daughters be homeless, then themselves be homeless, especially if that parent or parents is financially stable, well secured beyond their means... is not a parent. Saying such a thing from any parent, that has a daughter or daughters not asking for money, but to merely assist in helping that daughter or daughters seek independence from an unhealthy relationship, while also juggling chronic illness... is not a parent. No normal parent or parents would first, say such a thing to a daughter or daughters. Especially, if they have been fully aware their daughter or daughters have been desperately trying to exit an unhealthy relationship. No woman can juggle a chronic illness and at the same time, successfully exit any unhealthy relationship. Can it be done?... sure. But the percentage is low and let's not go there on the stress it places on a woman physically and emotionally. Women, ladies, don't fool yourselves, you cannot do this alone, so never be afraid to ask for help. If you can't get the help from a parent, please reach out for support through organizations that are willing to help you. It's hard enough for young ladies and women, for those who don't live with chronic illness, to carefully and successfully exit any unhealthy relationship. Now add the daily ins and outs of what goes along with chronic illness. You see my exact point!

Any parent, father, that states to their own daughter or daughters, that they can easily replace you... is not a parent. Any father that would say such a thing is narcissistic. No parent would ever let such words slip from the tongue. Saying such words can leave a permanent mark, emotionally with your daughter or daughters.

Any parent, that gets wind of red flags or information of a spouse that a daughter or daughters is involved with and doesn't warn your daughter or daughters, is not a parent. If you as a parent, cannot handle a child born with a chronic illness, then please place them with loving members of willing family members. Especially, if there are willing family members offering to help. To say, you always wanted children, but refuse to take on all responsibilities of a son or daughter that was born with any chronic condition is downright, selfish. You, in turn, are forcing an anything but normal upbringing for that sick baby, infant or toddler.

Any parent that doesn't understand that being a mother or father includes a moral duty to protect and be there in every sense of the work, "unconditionally" for your son or daughter... is not a parent. No one asks to be born with a chronic illness. But as a parent, it is your moral duty to be there for them, unconditionally. That means for a lifetime, because chronic conditions do not just magically disappear... the majority get worse with time. Many, that involve autoimmune, only get worse overtime. 

Anyone who decides to be a parent and cannot provide any, all of the above... you are not ready to be a parent.

By bringing a child in this world and not protecting them, being present unconditionally. You have not only failed your child, son or daughter...

Y O U failed yourself.

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And...

Age is merely just a number. 

👆Not a normal response to insurance company from a 40 something year old man.

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YOU can not help people that are not willing to positively change. Instead, take that valuable time to build a better life for #1-YOU.

What you are doing, by continuing to help someone that isn't willing to change, is enabling their bad behavior. Someone not willing to change is ultimately, after a point, only taking advantage of YOUR kindness. Some people have to hit rock bottom on their own first... before realizing they need to make positive change.

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Bad parenting... spoiling your child or children, will only come back to bite you in the ass later in life. That spoiled child becomes an adult and YOU as a parent/parents are going to feel the great boomerang effect. Boys should be raised to be responsible, mature men.

That spoiled child... now an adult, is once again YOUR responsibility. Life has a strange way of coming full circle.

"Life holds many lessons to be learned."

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