FREE YOURSELF...MY JOURNEY

Parents👍👍Should ALWAYS Be Of Great Support!.

 
Help your kids when they need it, not when they don't.
Emotional support should come naturally from a parent.
Be present, not absent from your kids... Regardless of age.
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LOUD📣Be Real, Loud, Raw!.

 
Doesn't it feel absolutely gratifying to be authentically YOU!
No matter how loud, real or raw it gets... this is your life.
You are every bit allowed to FEEL your way through it too!!
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Narcissistic Personality Disorder😵‍💫👺1-Sided Relationships...

 
So called “friends” and "family" who EXPECT you to do this, attend that, be present for him, her, they and I mean throughout my entire life. Where were THEY when the chips fall down??
NO WHERE to be found.
The ability to see a need and meet that need is a very good trait, especially when dealing with your own long-term illness. We ALL should HAVE, but not all people are givers like me or you. Doing more than just multi-tasking. We are merely EXHAUSTED, and wishful that God brings us some help.
Most of these now strangers by absence, couldn't even handle a mere sniffle or sneeze. However, explaining to a judicial judge, the daily laundry-list of work I do/and have done, while dealing with some of the physically TOUGHEST and most CHALLENGING DAYS over the years, even left a bad taste in his mouth.
The takers use you and leave you wondering... why you were taken from and not give a damn when you need some help. ALWAYS met with excuses. 
"I had to babysit."
"The traffic is too bad."
"I woke up with a sore throat."
Or the classic...
"Can't you call a company to help you."
Yea, when I used to live back in Ohio. A place, I called... my home. You know, before your flying monkeys and mirror image started causing mere mischief of loaded problems, lies and straight up BS... Fact.
I lived, where there were far-too-many companies, contractors and even a Pooper Scooper service. I remember, what it was like to rest... to breathe. All without constantly struggling. Even back home, neighbors helped neighbors, because it's just normal-human-behavior.
The people who had nothing but expectations of me, couldn't even offer a mere penny of emotional support. Oh... I forgot the excuse on Christmas Eve;
"Things would had been different, if I would had kids."
I guess IVF/reproductive surgeries weren't extreme enough, for your liking. Remember, "I" was the one who always wanted children. The Brady Bunch... 3 boys and 3 girls. I can't blame myself, the rest of my life, for what my body could not provide. But I was always treated less-off a woman... an individual flawed, at best. She doesn't have kids... so why bother? Right. Right.
I used to be a very giving individual to anyone I perceived needing my help.
However, over the years...
I have learned that my gift of help was expected, no matter how bad those bad-days had me feeling.. thus I have become cynical, untrusting and will no-longer-allow myself to help just anyone out of the kindness of my heart.
Doing so, by far-too-much experience... is just far-too-emotionally expensive for my taste and well-being.
I call that my very own, Tasters Choice!
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💞Give Good💕Get Good💞

 
I never did care much for spas or nail salons. I would much rather do my own. It's been awhile, but having fresh painted nails feels good!💅 
♡Ready for fall♡
Working on new photos to update the podcast and other platforms. A swing back look to the 80's. Still have yet to make up my mind... out with the old? Or in with the new??
"She doesn't look sick."
I wouldn't want to look sick or who would either? I keep my not-so-great days, under wraps. Most do...
Photo taken a few months ago, however I believe we all clean up well.
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Loyalty & Trust GO Hand-In-Hand🤚

 
Loyalty  is a strong feeling of support or allegiance, while trust is the belief that someone or something is reliable and honest.
Yes, loyalty and trust BOTH go hand-in-hand.
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Spill The Tea 🍵 Everyone Has A Conscience.

 
Learning hard lessons:
 
Some folks... just have to learn the hard way. The universe always gives back what you sow. Choose to cultivate wisely! Then maybe next time, you won't get back another heaping load of cow manure.
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80's Era...Do You Remember?😁

 
Correction:
Heather Locklear was NOT married to Charlie Sheen.
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Eric insisted that he knows EVERYTHING about the 80's...
He got 2 questions correct😄😆
If I could had lived frozen in time. It definitely would had been the 80's!
A much needed evening for some laughs... while reminiscing about far-better times.
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The 1980s were known for bold and vibrant fashion trends, including big hair and tight perms. Shoulder pads were a must, along with bright colors. 
The 1980s embraced various music genres, including synth-pop, glam metal and hip hop. 
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Chihuahua On Steroids😉...Updates, Journey👣

 
Life is far-too-short to be spending it on hours-upon-hours with your hair.
Now if maybe, I can spend that extra time on some sleep 🥱.
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Narcissistic Personality Disorder😕👺Buying Abuse...

 
In narcissistic families, cult-like behavior means having zero accountability for those they hurt. You must agree at all times with the narcissist leaders. Not following directives or orders, means facing the swift ramifications. You either get back-in-line or risk being ousted by the entire family.
Loyalty=love... bought by money, objects and greed. 
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Narcissism🗣😑Control...Millionaire Tatics.

 
$5.00 to repair $3.00👇
Humbled and priceless.
It's the little things...
Living normal within an abnormal world.
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People Will Help, If YOU Meet ALL The Criteria👏

 
I was told one time on Christmas Eve...
If I had kids, I would had been treated differently. Like a normal part of the inner circle.
Maybe if I was rich.
Maybe if I lived in a mansion.
Maybe if I had become everything that you wanted me to be.
I never met your criteria. And, let's really face the facts... it was always about trying to control me.
That old saying is still true to this very day...
"You can never control wild horses, they will always run free as intended to be."
Here's that photo you asked me👇
Surrounded by love, no limitations or judgment. The way those sick should be loved.
Unconditionally💞
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