Know Your Facts.

February 10th, 2019


When people gossip...It turns Facts into anything but...The Truth.

When you have a broken relationship with birth parents that cannot be worked out among yourselves. (Birth parents and adult children.) You seek licensed medical professionals which are counselors to help guide you into the right direction which is a healthy choice.

When you want to have a relationship that is on it's last string. A close to severed tie that needs to be worked out and pieced back together in a professional medical directed manner.

In turn...

When you find yourself on the third and final attempt by reaching out and offering counseling to amend a broken relationship with birth parents. And they in turn refuse to seek counseling. Then a adult child is left with nothing but to move on to the best of their ability with the remainder of their life.

The only victim in an unfortunate circumstance is any adult child that takes the initiative to love their birth parents enough to do what is right by counseling. And then they are told by birth parents they will not seek counseling. To chastise belittle and irate any birth child/adult without knowing your facts makes it nothing but mere gossip and a false opinion.

So when people make the choice to gossip recklessly about any birth child/adult without first getting both sides of the story and knowing their facts. Then that should tell you that gossiping is most likely not a very Wise Choice nor is judging someone when you don't know the true facts. And you only choose to listen to one side because there is always two sides to every story.

Some adult children are only left to move on with their life as diligently as possible.

If you see an absence of birth parents in an adult child's life...Don't make assumptions. Reach out and make sure you have both sides of the story first before making such a harsh judgement.